Ramblings from the Island
A little bit about my story and our vision.
My sister (who was part of my inspiration for this blog) tells me I am living in the dark ages of social media and internet connectedness. I am running this primarily as a blog with some in-person events. I’ve considered bringing it to facebook. I run my hiking blog as a blog, in-person events, a Facebook page, and a Facebook group. I post things on Instagram. But you see, hiking is my heart. (You can visit my hiking blog at Blister Sisters).
My sister (who is younger and more trendy than I am), says the way of the future is little snippet videos like TikTok and Facebook Reels. I don’t even have a TikTok account. It looks like I have some new things to learn as I try and break, or rebreak out, into this online world of connection.
I have the heart of a blogger and it is a whole new world out there!
So: Would it be beneficial to you to have a Facebook page or group? And how does one do Reels?
I’m not a Triangle, I’m a Girl
Lily K., 2011
When I was pregnant, I felt beautiful, sexy, and feminine. When I was nursing a baby I felt feminine and motherly and still beautiful. Fast forward a decade or so, I am struggling to find my own expression of femininity.
It is not a secret that I am not the most girlie or feminine of females around. I’m outdoorsy and pretty low maintenance. I don’t do a lot of traditionally feminine things. I feel like a clown if I wear more than a tiny bit of makeup. I’m awkward and clumsy in heels. When I have paint on my nails, I simply pick it off.
For others who are not the most girlie around? For others who struggle to find your own expression of your feminine, what are you doing? Where have you found that in your 40’s, your 50’s and beyond?
One of the aspects on our journey of self-love and self-care is taking care of the physical us (you). Our physical self includes:
It’s a good start. Which one are you going to work on today?
Just before the pandemic of 2020 shook the world, I was thinking about the trend in self-care and the “Me First” movement. There are a lot of people who buy into this philosophy, but very few I see that it is actually working for them. I’ve been there. The overwhelmed mom of young children. The single mom. The wife fighting a losing battle in her marriage. The working mom. The stay-at-home mom. I get it, it is hard! It is so easy to lose yourself in the needs of others. It is easy to lose yourself in the many directions we get pulled as women, mothers, and humans. I realized it had to be different. There had to be more to self-care than a bubble bath. There had to be more to self-care than wrapping yourself inside of yourself.
After a lot of thought, I came up with self-care being so much more and involving so many more people. I plan on talking about all of these throughout my writings here. I’ll address taking care of our physical, mental, and emotional selves. I’ll include taking care of our financial, medical care, and spiritual lives. During our time here I’ll talk about serving others and domestic violence (there is a fun one.)
Stick around and share your thoughts. I look forward to getting to know you.
Mama, Teacher, Hiker, Lover of all things Yellow
National Suicide Hotline
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1-800-799-7233